I Thessalonians 4:11-12a

Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before. Then people who are not Christians will respect the way you live. . . (I Thessalonians 4:11-12a)

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Considering Her.meneutics: A Theology of Jiggly Thighs

Having just looked through the most recent issue of MORE Magazine (those of you over 40 probably know it), I have to say this post at Her.meneutics is a fine counterbalance for the the magazine. While I can't say I wholeheartedly agree with the author's theology of aging gracefully (or, maybe I should say I had never really thought of it in quite this way), I am willing to read it again and consider it further.

It's food for thought as you consider living simply. I have always intended to let my hair show its gray (may I be so blessed as to have it turn out as brilliant as my mother's). I seem to naturally prefer the simpler styles of clothing and makeup and hairstyles that are deemed appropriate for a woman of maturing years. These are not problems for me. Still, I think these preferences are just an expression of my personal relationship with Christ. Other saints who are more expressive and outwardly joyful than I am probably look the part as well with brightly colored clothing and funky hairstyles and jewelry. I myself have seasons when these adornments are more appropriate to my spiritual mood. You can have feisty seasons in Christ. Can I get an Amen?

However, what I want others to see on the outside of me, whatever the style or color of clothing or hair I've chosen, is what I experience with Him on the inside: comfort; ease; humble recognition of imperfection in the face of His glory tempered with gratitude for grace that lifts me up. I'd like to think that, crow's feet and less than brilliantly white teeth notwithstanding, my appearance, my countenance, will increasingly reflect an inner beauty that comes from being at peace with my Lord. There is an undeniable radiance in the face of anyone who truly knows the Lord.

Friday, August 6, 2010

Slow Changes

There's a tree growing at the back of my garage.  In July it put on these funny yellow plumes near the top.  I don't like the tree much when it looks that way because it makes me think of itchy pollen and fuzz.  I try to ignore it, because just looking at it makes me want to rub my eyes and sneeze.  

It's August now and things are changing.  The grass is faded.  Leaves are fat and full.  Believe it or not, there are some yellow leaves and I even found a red one on the sidewalk two blocks up beneath the tree that is always the first in the neighborhood to change.  But, there's been another change, too.  One I noticed by happenstance because I wasn't looking.  That fuzzy tree has become something quite pretty.  Now where there were yellow plumes there are bright lime green pods that look almost like Chinese lanterns.  They hang down from the top and the tree looks festive.  I enjoy looking at it now.

Changes are slow, but sudden.  It's true in nature, in time, in distance and in life.  We are eager for the next season to arrive and so we overlook the subtle shifts as nature prepares for something new.  We are anxious about a deadline or eager for the work day to end.  It seems like an eternity until 5:00, but then suddenly the clock ticks over.  Going away for vacation, the miles click by not too quickly, but our anticipation and excitement make us aware that they are indeed passing; coming home those same miles seem to take forever to cross.

Think about your own life.  What changes have you hoped for, worked for, prayed about over years or even decades?  Then, suddenly one day God says, "Now."  Most of the time, in my limited understanding I cannot understand why "now" is the time, but years ago was not.  I would have been happier, I think, if God had said "now" way back when.  But, in His complete understanding and full knowledge, there is a certain, sudden moment in which "now" is right.  Any moment before that, and for that matter any moment after, would not be just right.  

We want to hurry.  We get impatient.  We get petulant sometimes.  We grow weary.  But, the promise of scripture is true:  If we don't grow weary in well-doing we will will reap in due season if we don't faint (Galatians 6:9).  

The agricultural metaphor is especially appropriate this season.  There's so much to consider when you visit the farmers market!  Beyond the abundance of fresh vegetables and fruits, there is an object lesson.   Remember James 5:7 which admonishes us to be patient until the Lord's coming and gives the example of the farmer who waits for the land to yield its valuable crop and how patient he is for the rains in autumn and spring.  It's true, to everything there is, indeed, a season.

Take time to appreciate the nowness of where you are.  Don't give up hope for the realization of dreams or the answers to prayers, but know that God's timing is perfect.  If you have trouble remembering it, go visit a local market.  Buy a good tomato or melon and savor the flavor.  Remind yourself that it took time to reach that moment of perfection.  It took rains, too.  There is benefit for us in each passing moment whether we are learning patience or diligence, fortitude or forbearance.  Change is slow, but it is coming.  Even now.